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    We have a large number of Hadiths which report some prayers by the 
    Prophet. Many of these include requests for ordinary things which everyone 
    would like to enjoy in life, such as good health, a life of plenty, a 
    refined nature, good manners, etc. There is hardly any quality that makes 
    anyone of us a better person which is not mentioned in the Prophet’s 
    supplication. 
     
    It is needless to say that having such qualities makes us better Muslims and 
    as such, draws us nearer to God and makes us more likely to earn the 
    greatest prize of all, namely, admittance into heaven. For example, the 
    Prophet highlights in his prayer the qualities of forbearance and shows that 
    it is a quality to earn much reward from God when exercised in human 
    dealings. 
     
    A person who shows much forbearance is thus praised by people and rewarded 
    by God. 
     
    Much of the Prophet’s supplication is also geared toward the hereafter. 
    Seeking God’s forgiveness features very highly in his supplication because 
    when a person is forgiven sins, he escapes punishment. That is a great feat 
    indeed. 
     
    He will also be rewarded for his good deeds and that is sufficient to tilt 
    the balance in his favor. Since everyone of us is liable to commit sins, 
    some of which may be very serious, we need to pray for forgiveness all the 
    time. We cannot do better than following the Prophet’s example and using his 
    own supplication in this regard. Let us consider here some examples of his 
    supplication. 
     
    Abu Hurairah quotes the Prophet as saying: “The supplication most likely to 
    be answered is to say: You are my Lord and I am your servant. I have wronged 
    myself and I do acknowledge my wrong actions. Only You forgive wrong 
    actions. My Lord, forgive me.” (Related by Al-Bukhari in Al-Adab Al-Mufrad 
    and Ahmad). The Arabic version of this supplication is as follows: 
    “Allahumma anta rabbi wa’ana abduk, thalamtu nafsi wa’taraftu bithanbi, la 
    yaghfiru athunooba illa ant. Rabbi ighfir li.” 
     
    The first thing to note about this supplication is the acknowledgment of the 
    Lordship of God and the reiteration of the relationship between Him and His 
    servants. 
     
    This is always the right approach. Once we acknowledge this relationship and 
    we are fully aware of its implications, we put ourselves on the right course 
    to receive God’s grace. 
     
    It is He who has promised to answer our supplication as he says in the 
    Qur’an: “Your Lord says: Pray Me and I will answer you.” The acknowledgment 
    of His Lordship is, then, the key to answering our prayers. 
     
    The second point is the acknowledgment of the fact that when we commit sins 
    we wrong ourselves, because we incur God’s displeasure and expose ourselves 
    to His punishment. This can only be avoided by seeking His forgiveness. This 
    acknowledgment of our sins is made in a private address we make to God. 
    Hence, it is acceptable. 
     
    It must be distinguished from the sort of boasting some hardened sinners may 
    indulge in when they tell others about what they have committed. A person of 
    this type may speak of his, say, drinking and participation in an orgy, or 
    he may boast about robbing other people and making away with their property 
    in order to show his strength. This is an added sin he commits, which makes 
    forgiveness even more difficult for him to obtain. When we acknowledge our 
    sins before God, we are actually blaming ourselves and expressing our 
    repentance. The final point is the acknowledgment that only God forgives 
    sins and wrongs. As such, we pray Him to forgive us. 
     
    A companion of the Prophet said to him once: “Messenger of God, teach me a 
    supplication which benefits me. He said: “My Lord, protect me from the evil 
    of my hearing and my sight, and my tongue and my heart and from the evil of 
    my sperm.” (Related by Al-Bukhari in Al-Adab Al-Mufrad, An-Nassaie, and Abu 
    Dawood.) In Arabic this supplication is pronounced as follows: “Allahumma 
    ‘aafini min sharri sam’ie wa bassari wa lissani wa qalbi wa sharri maniyi.” 
     
    In this supplication, the Prophet teaches us to request God’s protection 
    against what sins we may do with our senses and other organs.” The evil of 
    hearing is to listen to backbiting, obscenities, falsehood, perjury. If we 
    deliberately sit with people who engage in such foul talk, we share with 
    them their sins. 
     
    This is the evil of our hearing. It is needless to say that if we hear such 
    things by coincidence, without taking part in them, or seeking to hear them, 
    we are not accounted for that. 
     
    The evil of eyesight is to look deliberately at what is forbidden or to look 
    at sins being committed by others, condoning them. It is also evil to look 
    stealthily at what we should turn our eyes away from. The evil of our 
    tongues is to utter falsehood of any sort. That of our hearts is to 
    entertain evil thoughts. 
     
    The last type of evil we request God’s protection from is that of our sexual 
    desires, whether it is fornication or its preliminaries. 
     
    Abdullah ibn Abbas reports that he heard the Prophet saying the following 
    supplication: “My Lord, help me and do not help anyone against me. Support 
    me and do not support anyone against me. Scheme for me and do not scheme 
    against me. Facilitate for me the following of right guidance. Grant me Your 
    aid against anyone who unjustly attacks me. My Lord, make me grateful to 
    you, always remembering you, fearful of You, obedient to You and humble 
    before You and make me tender-hearted, penitent. 
     
    Accept my repentance, wash away my wrong actions and answer my supplication. 
    Establish my proof and guide my heart, let my tongue always say the truth 
    and purge my heart of all evil thought.” (Related by Al-Bukhari in Al-Adab 
    Al-Mufrad, Abu Dawood, At-Tirrnithi and Ibn Majah). The Arabic version of 
    this supplication is as follows: “Rabbi a’inni wa la tu’in alay, wansurni wa 
    la tansur alay, wamkur li wa la tamkur alay, wa yasir li al huda, wansurni 
    ala man bagha alay. Rabbi ij’alni shakkaran lak, thakkaran rahiban lak, 
    mitwa’an, mukhbitan lak, awwahan muneeban. Taqabbal tawbati wa aghsil 
    hawbati, wa ajib da’wati, wathbbit hujjati, wahdi qalbi, wa sadded lissani, 
    wasslul sakheemata qalbi.” 
    This supplication is an all-comprehensive one which does not need any 
    comment from me. 
     
    If we learn it and get used to saying it after our prayers or any other 
    time, we stand to receive much help from God in all respects. 
    
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    For the 
    inculcation of His love, Allah granted humanity a beating heart; and for the 
    acquisition of knowledge, Allah gave human beings acute minds. Thus, the 
    sustenance of the heart is love and the sustenance of the mind is sacred 
    knowledge. Love alone leads to deviant innovations, and it is knowledge that 
    restores a balanced equilibrium. Knowledge alone leads to arrogant pride and 
    it is love that restores modesty and humility. 
    
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