Foe;ij tsh;g;G

Foe;ijah mJ? vd;d gpbthjk; gpbf;fpd;wJ?

''mk;kk;kh...vg;gbj;jhd; fhye; js;sg; NghfpwNjh...!""

''vt;tsTjhd; nfhQ;Nrd;... nfhQ;rk; $l tpl;Lf; nfhLf;fhJ. jhd; gpbj;j KaYf;F %d;W fhy; vd epw;fpd;wJ!""

'Kfj;jpy; mUs; ,Uf;fpd;wjh ghNud;...""

,g;gb rpy mk;khkhHfs; tPl;by; myl;bf; nfhs;tijf; Nfs;tpg;gl;bUf;fpNwhk;.

fhuzk;> gpbthjk;> fgsPfuq;fs;> kpf vspjhff; Nfhgg;gLjy;> vijAk; vjpHgJ>mwpiufis Vw;Wf;nfhs;s kWg;gJ> ngw;NwhiuNa Nfs;tp Nfl;gJ vd;gd Nghd;w Fog;gq;fspd; nkhj;j tbtkhf tPl;by; xU Foe;ij fhl;rp jUk;.

,e;jf; Foe;ijfs; ngw;wtHfSf;F kl;Lky;yhJ kw;wtHfSf;Fk; njhe;jhTfisj; je;J nfhz;Nl ,Uf;Fk;.

''gf;fj;J tPl;by; tsHfpwNj xd;W...mg;gg;gh!"" vd mz;il tPl;lhH mYj;Jf; nfhs;Sk; msTf;F mz;il tPl;lhH Kjy; midtiuAk; ntWg;gilar; nra;Ak;.

gs;spf;F mDg;gpdhy;... ''gps;isah tsHf;fpwPHfs;? nfhQ;rk; mjl;b itAq;fs;"" vd MrphpaHfs; mbf;fb ek;ik mioj;J MNyhrid $wpLk; mty epiyf;F ek;ik Mshf;fpLk;.

,it my;yhky; jdpik> ez;gHfs; ,y;yhky; elg;gJ> mg;gbNa VNjDk; ez;gh;fs; fpilj;jhy; clNdNa mtHfisg; gifg;gJ> jdJ Fw;wq;fSf;Fk; mLj;jtHfis gopg;gJ>ngw;wtHfisAk; kw;wtHfisAk; ntUg;NghL Nfs;tp Nfl;gJ vd;W ,e;jg; gpbthjkhd> fl;Lf;flq;fhj gps;isfspd; Fzq;fs; ePPz;L nfhz;Nl Nghfpd;wd.

FLk;gj;jpw;nfhU Foe;ij epr;rakhf ,g;gb ,Ue;jpLk; tha;g;G epiwaNt ,Uf;fpd;wJ.

Foe;ij tsHg;G mwptpaypy; ,jid 'vjpHFzk; nfhz;l Foe;ijfs;" (Oppositional Defiant Disorder) vd miof;fpd;whHfs;.

mz;ikapy; Nkw;fz;l Ma;twpf;if xU gs;spf;$lj;jpy; E}W Foe;ijfs; gapd;whs; 16 Kjjy; 22 Foe;ijfs; tiu ,J Nghd;w FsWgbahd Fzq;fisf; nfhz;ltHfshf ,Uf;fpd;whHfs; vdf; fz;Lgpbj;jpUf;fpd;wJ.

vl;L taJf;F Nky; ,e;jf; FsWgbahd Fzj;ijf; nfhz;l Foe;ijfs; kpfg;ngUk; ghukhfTk;> epj;jk; xU gpur;idia tPl;Lf;Fs; nfhz;L tUgitahfTk; ,Uf;Fk;.

Mdhy; ,e;jf; Fzq;fs; ,uz;L taJ Kjy; Foe;ijfsplk; gbaj; njhlq;fp tpLfpd;wJ.

epr;rakhf ve;jf; Foe;ijAk; gpwf;Fk;NghNj ,Nj Fzj;NjhL gpwg;gjpy;iy. ,ijf; Foe;ij tsHg;G tpQ;Qhdpfs; cWjpg;gLj;Jfpd;whHfs;.

'gpwtp Fzk;" vd ehk; mbf;fb $Wk; (gpwf;Fk;NghNj Foe;ijfs; rpy Fzq;fNshL gpwf;fpd;wd vd;w) $w;iw ,y;iy vd;fpd;whHfs; Ma;thsHfs;.

mNjNghy; Kd;NdhHfspd; Fzq;fisf; Foe;ijfs; jj;njLj;Jf; nfhs;fpd;wd vd;gJk; cz;ik ,y;iyahk;. ,J Fwpj;j Ma;thpf;if ,g;gbf; $Wfpd;wJ:

True. Many children do show personality traits similar to those of one or another of its parents but experimental studies of personality have shown fairly conclusively that this similarity is the result of limitation, acquired from the constant contact of the child with its parents.

,jd; jkpo;r; RUf;fk;:

'' cz;ikjhd;. gy Foe;ijfs; jq;fSiila ngw;NwhHfspy; ahNuDk; xUtUila jdpj;jd;ikiag; gpujpgypf;fpd;wd (mjhtJJ ngw;NwhH xUtiug; Nghd;W Fzq;fisf; nfhz;bUf;Fk;) vd;gJ cz;ikjhd;. Mdhy; Muha;r;rpfs; mWjpapl;L XH cz;ikiaf; $Wfpd;wd.

'',g;gbf; Foe;ijfs;> ngw;Nwhhpd; Fzhjpraq;fisf; nfhz;bUg;gJ> Foe;ijfs; jq;fs; ngw;NwhUld; njhlHe;J njhlHG nfhz;bUUg;gjdhy; Vw;g;gLk; gpujpgypg;G my;yJ jhf;fk;jhd;.""

How Life Begins By Elizabeth Herlock

,iwtdpd; J}jH K`k;kj; (]y;) mtHfs; nrhd;d nghd;nkhopfs; vj;Jid Mokhd mfykhd nghUisf; nfhz;lJ vd;gij ehk; ,g;gbAk; Ghpe;J nfhs;s Ntz;bAs;sJ.

mz;zyhhpd; me;j nkhop:

''gpwf;Fk; xt;nthU Foe;ijAk; J}a;ikahd epiyapNyNa gpwf;fpd;wd. mtHfis åjHfshfNth>fpwp];jtHfshfNth>nrsuh\;uHHfshfNth Mf;FtJ ngw;NwhHfs;jhk;.""

Mf Ffoe;ij tsHfg;gLk; tpjj;jpNyjhd; mjd; Fzeyd;fs; ,Uf;fpd;wd. me;jf; Fzeyd;fspd; mbg;gilapy;jhd; mtHfspd; vjpH fhyk; ,Uf;fpd;wJ. ,e;j vjpH fhyj;ij cUthf;Ftjpy; ngw;NwhUf;F Kf;fpag; gq;Fz;L.

Mf> gpwf;Fk;NghJ Foe;ijfs; ajhh;jkhf ve;jg; gopAAk; ghtKkpy;yhky;jhd; gpwf;fpd;wd.

mg;gbahdhy; ehk; NkNy nrhd;d gpbthjf; Fzk;>FjHf;fFzk;>ntFspj;jdk; vg;gbf; Foe;ijfsplk; xl;bf; nfhs;fpd;wJ?

NkNy Fwpg;gpl;lgb ,JTk; Foe;ijfs; tsHf;fg;gLk; tpjj;ijg; nghUj;jJjhd;.

Foe;ij tsh;fg;gLk; #o;epiy NkhrkhdjhfTk;> rd;ilAkk;>rr;ruTk; epiwe;j xd;whf ,Ue;jpLNkahdhy; Foe;ij gy Fjh;f;fkhd kdepiyiaj; jd;Ds; tsh;j;Jf; nfhs;Skhk;.

mNj Nghy; jha; my;yJ je;ij my;yJ mjDld; mbf;fb njhlHGilatHfs; Nftykhd gof;fq;fisNah Kul;L Rghtq;fisNah nfhz;bUe;jhYk; Foe;ij mNj jd;ikfisj; jd;Ds; tsHj;Jf; nfhs;Sk;.

Foe;ijiaj; jho;thfg; NgrpdhNyh my;yJ me;jf; Foe;ijfs; xU jho;T kdg;ghd;ikAlDk;> tuf;jpAlDk; tPl;bYs;stHfisAk;> rKjhaj;jpYs;s Vida mq;fj;jpdiuAk; ghh;fj;njhlq;fptpLk;. ,e;j tpuf;jpapd; tpisthf 'ehk; jho;e;J NghNdhkh..." 'ehk; ,ayhjtHfs; thpirapy; ,lk; gpbj;Jf;nfhz;Nlhkh..." vd;w kdf;Fog;gq;fSf;F MshFk;.

,e;jf; Fog;gj;jpd; ,d;ndhUtpisthf me;jf; Foe;ij midtiuAk; vjpHf;Fk;. ahiuAk; ek;ghJ. AhhplKk; xl;lhJ. Xl;bdhYk; mbf;fb re;Njfg;gLk;. jd;Dila neUq;fpa ez;gHfs; Gd;dif G+j;jhy; $l jd;id Vsdg;gLj;jpajhff; fUjp tk;Gf;fpOf;Fk;. ,jdhy; ,e;jf; Foe;ijia mLj;J tUk; el;GfSk; fhy;if njhpahky; XLk;.

,J Nghd;w kdepiyia tsu tplhky; jLf;f ,Uf;Fk; xNu top Foe;ijfis tPl;by; xU ey;y #o; epiyapy; tsu tpl Ntz;Lk;.

jha;>je;ijaH>tPl;bd; nfsutk; rKjha mikjp ,it fUjp tPl;by; rd;il rr;rutpd;wp tho Ntz;Lk; ,y;iyNay; Foe;ijfspd; kdepiy> vjpHfhyk; ,it fUjpNaDk; mtHf;s tPl;by; md;G> ghrk; ,ioNahLk; xU #o;epiyia cUthf;fpl Ntz;Lk;.

Foe;ijapd; chpikfs;> Foe;ijfSf;F ngw;NwhHfs; epiwNtw;wpl Ntz;ba flikfs; ,it Fwpj;J jpUf;Fh;MDk;> egpnkhopAk; topfhl;bapUf;Fk; ghijapy; ekJ FLk;gj;ij topelj;jpr; nrd;why; zU ey;y #o;epiy cUthFk;.

,tw;iw mbf;fb tpbaypy; Rl;bf; fhl;bAs;Nshk;. Foe;ijfs; MNuhf;fpakhdnjhU kepiyNahLk;>RakhpahijNahLk;> jd;dk;gpf;ifAlDk; tsUk;.

FLk;gq;fspy; RKfkhd epiyia epytr; nra;tjpy; khkpahHfSf;F ey;ynjhU gq;fpU;gjhy;> mtHfSk; tsUk; jiyKiwapd; tUq;fhyk; fUjp jq;fs; FWk;G Fzq;fisf; Fiwj;Jf; nfhs;syhk;. kUkfs; cilf;Fk; kz; rl;bfis kwf;fyhk; kd;dpf;fyhk;.

rhp> ,j;jidAk; jhd;b ehk; FLk;gr; #o;epiyiag; gho;gLj;jptpl;Nlhk;: mjdhy; Foe;ijfs; ntFspfshfptpl;ld vd;why; vd;d nra;tJ?

mJ gpwtpf; Fzky;y. mJ kd epiy rk;e;jg;gl;l rhjhud Neha;. XU ey;y kdNeha; epGzhpd; cjtpAld; mij kpf vspjhff; Fzg;gLj;jp tplyhk;.Foe;ijia cw;rhfj;Jld; tho itf;fyhk;.

ve;epiyapYk; ,jid Kj;j tplhjPHfs;. Foe;ijapd; kdepiy gho;gl;L tho;f;if top jtwp> gUtj;ij vl;Lk;NghJ fphpkpdyhfNth Fw;wthspahfNth igj;jpaf;fhudhfNth Mfptplyhk;. my;yh`; midtiuAk; fhg;ghw;wl;Lk;.

fl;Liuf;F cjtpait:

1.Women’s ERA, Nov First,2002

2.How life begins / How the child developed by Elizabeth B.Hurlock

3.Sahihul Bukhari, Muslim